So, you believe in gender equality. Your blood boils when you hear about atrocities against women? You took a vow not to take dowry? Did you tell your wife, that you are flexible regarding her decision to work or not? Did you promise her that whether she works or not, you will keep a cook to reduce the drudgery in her life?
Having done the above, do you feel happy that you are a loving, egalitarian, considerate partner?
Of course, many of the above questions are addressed to men.